Start Dominating Your Husband in Chastity

The idea of dominating your husband and starting a female lead relationship (FLR) might sound like a tall order, but with the assistance of chastity cages, it can be much easier than you think. To aid you in the process, we’ve compiled a list of the top methods used by chastity keyholders to control and dominate their husbands.

Make Him Do Chores and Run Your Errands

This method is probably the most common and popular first step for keyholders as it’s the easiest and has a quick and nice payoff. Assign your husband daily and weekly chastity chores that are required for him to have a chance to get out of his cage and orgasm. The better he performs his chores the more likely he is to get a reward.

Make him do chastity chores
Make him do chastity chores

Keep Him Locked Up and Withhold Sex and Orgasms

The longer your husband is caged, the stronger his desire to please you and do as you say will be. After the first week caged without orgasming he will be begging to do anything so you let him cum. Let him out and orgasm the first time, then next time tease and deny him then demand he puts his cage back on until later. He’ll be eating out of your hand in no time.

Make Him Pleasure You Without Expecting Anything in Return

He needs to understand that you get to orgasm whenever you want and that you’re not always in the mood for sex or returning the favor in anyway. Tell him to make you cum, kiss him on the cheek when he’s done then turn out the lights and say goodnight.

Tease Him at Work with Sexting

Remind him that you’re in control by teasing him over text message while he’s at work. Let him feel his penis pulse and fill up his chastity cage without being able to get erect. Know he’s in a meeting? Leave a long, sultry voice mail telling him all the naughty things you want to do to him and when he gets home pretend that it never happened.

Choose His Wardrobe

Start taking away your husband’s free will and decision making by telling him what he’s going to wear every day. Start throwing in some girly colors into his wardrobe to emasculate him and eventually force him to wear frilly panties under his business clothes.

Demand Foot Massages

He needs to learn to worship you from head to foot and what better way then for him to give you daily foot massages to help you relax and unwind from a long day in charge of your household.

Make Him Ask to Spend Money

You can’t be in a FLR until you have complete control of the finances and to do that, he needs to ask you for permission to spend any money. Coworkers invite him out to lunch – he needs to ask you if he can go out to buy lunch. Wants to buy some coffee or groceries? Needs gas in the car? That’s right, he needs to ask you first.

Punish Him

If the above methods don’t work, he’s resisting or simply because you want to – punishing your husband should set him straight and show him who is boss. Start with light, emasculating punishments like bending him over your knee and spanking him and work your way up to crueler tease and denials, ruined orgasms, etc.


If your goal is to turn your marriage into female lead relationship these methods should help form this fun and exciting new relationship with your husband. Of course, your husband has to be at least a little open and receptive to the change. Don’t do anything to ruin your marriage!

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  1. Something I have discovered from my own chastity is after a while giving foot rubs is something I look forward to. I have always liked her feet. But now I am obsessed with them and will beg her to allow me to rub her feet.

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