How to Reward Your Chastity Husband

No matter the dynamic of your chastity relationship, a time will come when you, the chastity keyholder, will deem it fit to reward your husband. Perhaps he did all his chores early or went above and beyond, took initiative to do something he normally would have ignored, or simply has been a more attentive and caring partner.

Whatever the reason to reward your chastity husband, it’s up to you to decide how to reward him in away fitting of your chastity relationship. To make it a little easier we’ve compiled a list of our favorite chastity rewards for you to pick from.

Knock Time Off His Chastity Term

This is a very simple, low level reward so it’s an easy way to show appreciation. If you set chastity term lengths for your husband and he’s been good, knock a day or two off to make him happy. Or if he’s the type of guy who likes to be caged, maybe add some days on if you think he would prefer that instead. You can also make it interesting by playing chastity dice games to leave it up to chance.

Let Him Pleasure You

This may seem like more of a tease, but the longer men are in chastity the more they love to make their partners orgasm. Some even say that they share in the pleasure of their spouses (which they should!). Plus, letting them be intimate with you should always be considered a reward.

Let Him Have Sex… or At Least Let Him Try

If he’s been very good then rewarding him with sex can be considered the ultimate reward. But if you want to make it a little extra fun then spice it up with time limits.

Tell him he only has two minutes to orgasm and make sure he’s still doing a good job at pleasing you and not just doing what it takes for a quick orgasm. If he doesn’t cum in the time limit then too bad, back in the cage he goes.

On the flip side, some times after being locked up for a long time men can orgasm very quickly. Tell him he has to last at least two minutes (or however long) otherwise he will be locked up twice as long the next time.

Free Time Out of His Chastity Cage

Cage-free time can be a great reward for many men who wear chastity cages. Funny enough, some chastity men won’t like this because it makes them feel naked or incomplete. But for the men who do like being out of their cage they will definitely appreciate this. Just tell them that if they get caught touching themselves there will be a harsh punishment.

Reward His Kink

Lots of chastity relationships have extra kinky levels to them such as the man being a sissy maid, pegging, femdom, and even cuckolding. Rewarding him through his kink can be a very special way to reward an especially good behaving husband.

Try Something He Has Been Wanting

Is there something he has been asking for or hinting at? Perhaps he has been wanting to try a new cage, to try some role playing, to get pegged for the first time, or step up his sissification. If you see fit, giving in to his request is a great way to reward him.


What reward to give your chastity husband ultimately depends on several factors such as: how good he has been, how long he has been caged/how long it has been since he has orgasmed, how horny you are feeling and how nice you are feeling. Not to mention the general dynamics of your chastity relationship. Rewarding him will give him hope and keep him liking wearing his chastity cage so it is important to do from time to time.

What are your favorite chastity rewards? Let us know in the comments below!

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