The idea of turning your husband, your man, into a sissy maid may sound silly and preposterous, but we assure you that it isn’t! Of course, it’s not for everyone so if this doesn’t sound like it’s for you then don’t sweat it, as long as you have him locked in a chastity cage then you can still have him serve you and do household chores without dressing him up (though it may not be as fun!).
That said, let’s discuss what a sissy maid actually is. A sissy maid is a man, usually locked in a chastity cage, but not always, who is dressed up as a maid to serve someone. Yeah, it’s pretty much exactly what it sounds like. The “sissy” aspect of it mostly refers to the man being dressed up as a maid, but there is a wide range of other components to be fun to force on your husband. Check out Our Guide on Making Your Husband Your Sissy to learn more.
Once you’ve made your man dress up as the part, it’s time to get him acting like your maid. This can include whatever you want it to (which just makes it all the more fun), but typically he will be cleaning, cooking, serving you food and drinks, and anything else you desire. If you’ve had a long day, make him give you a foot massage. Exhausted and stressed? Make him pleasure you. He’s your servant and he must do whatever you please. Sounds amazing, right?
Some of you may be sold already, but to those still on the fence, let’s continue with the benefits as to why you should turn your husband into your sissy maid.
1. Cleaning Him Up
Many women want their sissy husbands and maids looking, feeling, and sounding like women while they work. This can often include improving their hygiene meaning having them shave more of their body. Their face, their legs, their chest, whatever you want to clean him up. You can even use it as an opportunity to get him to trim back his unruly eyebrows! Tell them that their appearance will directly effect how well the maid is treated and rewarded and they’re sure to shape things up for you.
2. Playing Dress Up
In our experience and from the experiences we’ve heard from others, the outfits usually start as “French Maid” costumes from Halloween stores or Amazon. These are typically cheap and silly outfits, but serve the purpose well enough to see how you like it. From there, if you find that you like your man being your sissy maid then you can have fun picking out lingerie, skirts, tops, and dresses to go with aprons, wigs, heels, and whatever else you want your maid to wear for you. It’s so much fun turning your husband into your personal barbie doll and making him serve you.
If you want to have more fun, you can teach him how to apply makeup or do it for him. That will really get him feeling like your sissy maid and could be a lot of fun for you.
3. Improves Your Power Over Him
Simply put, he’s not going to be able to talk back to you or say no when you have him dressed up as your maid. Once he becomes willing and eager to dress up as your maid again you know you have him hooked and that he will do anything for you. This is the road to making him your total submissive and making you completely dominant over him.
Another great way to dominate his is by introducing grades. When he’s done cleaning, inspect his work to make sure it has been done to your liking and give him a grade accordingly. If it is passing, consider giving him a reward such as letting him cum or letting him make you cum. If it is failing, punish him. The stricter you are, the more power you will have over him.
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4. Make Him Relate to You
Has he ever pissed you off by asking or telling you to dress up sexier? If he has, or even if he hasn’t, this is your chance to get him to understand what it’s like being a woman. Make him shave his body, put on sexy lingerie and a dress, a wig, and, most importantly, high heels. Basically, dress him up as a sexy woman. That is, before you tie the apron around his waist that deems him to be your maid. Making him go through the full process of transformation will make him finally understand all the work that goes into you getting ready to go out with him and will help him relate to the pain and discomfort women’s sexy clothes can be sometimes.
It’s also great fun to watch him fumble around in high heels the first time.
5. Improves His Bad Habits
Is he a slob who expects you to do all the cooking and cleaning around the house? Make him into your maid to make him do the work for once and watch how his bad habits quickly turn around. Why? Because he now knows that he is in charge of cleaning and the longer he is your maid, the more aware of this he will become. It will become second nature to him to not leave his dirty dishes on the table, but to instead take his, and yours to the sink to clean. You will love the improvements it creates in his daily life.
6. Improves His Sex Drive
If your husband tends to be more submissive, he will absolutely love being your sissy maid and having you reign over him as his mistress. Make his time as your maid extra kinky by dressing up sexily yourself and carrying around a paddle to spank him with on occasion, call him a worthless sissy slut, and humiliate him at every opportunity. It will be great fun for you and amazingly arousing for him.
Once after a kinky cleaning session, I was disappointed by my sissy maid and started tying her up for time out. I spanked her and told her how disappointed I was in her and how useless of a sissy she was. How she was probably too distracted to work by daydreaming about sucking cock. I didn’t know it until I unlocked her a half an hour later, but after my last spank, she came in her panties because she was so turned on. Knowing that I made her cum in such a way and then lay hog-tied in her own cum made me giddy.
Sorry, got sidetracked by a sexy memory. The thing to take away here is that by the end of his shift as your maid, he will be extremely turned on and ready for any sexy play that you want.
7. Ensure His Faithfulness
While chastity alone can improve a man’s faithfulness, once you have him feminized and loving it you will have him locked down for good. He will know that finding this type of special relationship will be extremely hard and he will be forever grateful to you for opening his mind and life to it.
8. Enjoy a Clean House
We saved the best and most obvious for last. Turning your man into your personal maid will mean that you can enjoy a clean house without having to lift a finger (finally!). At first, give him a list of chores to do while your maid (he should have one for when he’s not the maid, too), but after a few times you can just say, “do your usual” and watch him work. You will love the extra time to relax, catch up on a show, or do whatever you want while your husband is dressed as a maid and cleaning.
These reasons to turn your husband into your sissy maid all sound amazing, right? Trust us when we say that they are.
You may still be wondering though as to WHY dress him up at all? Why not just keep him locked in a chastity cage and make him clean in his normal clothes? Well, you certainly could do that, but believe it or not, dressing him up in a uniform (even if you aren’t following playing the hardcore mistress role) will help him clean and serve you much better. It may sound silly, but we’ve noticed a vast improvement in effort and ability when our men are dressed up as maid. They seem to take their roles much more serious and work harder!
So what do you think? Will you turn your husband into your sissy maid?
