Best Ways to Tease and Deny in Chastity

Teasing and denying go with male chastity like hammers and nails or spaghetti and meatballs. While they may work separately, they just work so much better together.

Teasing and denying is the act of arousing your man and then not allowing him to orgasm. You can do this while he’s locked in a chastity cage or not wearing one at all (though making him wear a cage is the best way to deny him). Read our article Why Orgasm Denial is Good For Him to learn more.

These are our favorite ways to tease and deny our men:

Play with His Cage

Stroking and sucking on his locked chastity cage is a great way to both tease and deny any man. Tell him that you wish he wasn’t locked up so that you could have the real thing so he longs for it himself. He will feel very little of it when he’s locked up and it will frustrate him and drive him crazy while never stimulating him to the point of orgasm.

Let Him Out for a Short Time

A classic was to tease and deny him is to let him out of his cage and edge him (take him to the point when he’s about to orgasm and stop). You can do this however you desire. Once you edge him, stop and demand that he puts his cage back on immediately. He will say he can’t with his penis hard and in reply you can tell him to take a cold shower or put some ice or frozen veggies over it to settle it (it works!). When he’s locked back up he will still be so aroused and longing to orgasm.

Use a Vibrator

Another way you can tease your man while he’s locked up is to use a vibrator on his chastity cage and balls. The vibrations will stimulate his penis inside the cage and if done long enough can actually make him orgasm. You don’t want to take it that far of course so stop when he’s very aroused and tell him maybe next time. Make sure to hide your vibrators afterwards so he doesn’t try it himself.

Play with His Balls

Playing with his balls while he’s locked up is another way to tease him. It can be a very sensitive area and you’re so close to his penis that he will want you to touch it so badly. But don’t. It will drive him crazy.

Tie Him Up and Blindfold Him

Tying him up and playing with his privates (locked or unlocked) at your will is another great tease. Blindfolding him takes it to the next level because he won’t know when or what you will be doing to him. You will be in full control to do whatever you want to him and tease any part of him; mouth, penis, balls or butthole.


What are your favorite ways to tease and deny your man? Or if you’re a man, how do you like to be teased? Let us know in the comments below!

4 thoughts on “Best Ways to Tease and Deny in Chastity

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.